Horoscope Man and Matching

Alright ladies and gentlemen so today we have a very very interesting lesson here which is about horoscope matching and of course you know you all love him when he comes and teaches because he's so simple straightforward and make things easier so you know Simon Tchaikovsky is here again teaching us about horoscope man and matching from the great land of Indonesia yes Simple Simon is back yeah and I always thought that was a bad thing people used to call me that and then I found out I have subtle yoga which is the one of the yoga's for the eighth house and I thought ok it's in my chart too so i'm simple uncomplicated person yeah so I'm gonna say hello to everyone and I'm going to turn my video off for the sake of the bandwidth connection and so we can have a better a better podcast ok for broadcast and yeah so today.

I every couple of years I sort of come up with something new and like you you know you sent me an email a couple times like hey you know you want to present I'm like I don't have anything for you well today I've got something for you and it's something I've been working on for the last six to eight months and so it took me about six years to figure out the Dharma types wrote a book on that it took me a few years to figure out sports and how to predict sporting outcomes wrote a book on that this project is the one that's incredibly exciting at the moment which is how to match two charts two people together for optimal from optimal pairing okay and and it's from my own personal experience and frustrations and that of many of my clients and I finally said alright let's figure this out you know all the Western not all but a lot of the Western books I read obviously the Eastern Vedic methods and what what I've kind of come up with is something I call the compatibility protocol and I'm going to show it to you guys not up I mean we can't go over obviously in an hour but we're gonna be doing a class on it with cosmic insights a full three hour webinar and I'll show you a the link to it after I can show you the link right now actually boom there it is I don't know if you can see that cosmic inside shop products so it's there but I'm gonna give you a little taste of it today because a lot of the stuff you won't find anywhere else and it's kind of a product of the last six six seven months of research so basically I mean I'm sure you know a hell of a lot about you know matching charts and you know what works what doesn't and a lot of people have a lot of knowledge so what I'm trying to do is sort of compile it into one protocol and one thing I found is that even before you get into matching charts you want to figure out first of all what's your personal handicap you know I can go if you have a handicap you know like you eat like a Joe what's your handicap buddy oh you know I'm a minus two or whatever I don't know I don't play golf so I don't know the numbers well you have a personal handicap in your relationships as well and it's so it's in it involves a whole bunch of factors that we use to get a point value and determine okay how well suited our age relationship so for example somebody like Barbara Bush who was married to George Bush for 70 years yeah I did her personal handicap in its off-the-charts good meaning she's someone who is basically set up to make relationships work that's just how she set up so it's kind of like if you're a blood type oh you can give blood to anybody so pretty much anybody she ended up with she would have made that relationship work because of the way her chart is set up and to turn on me I feel like I'm talking to the screen here and if it gets a little wonky we'll okay I'll turn it off again and I want to make it personal because right now like we were just saying there's a planetary war happening with Saturn and Mercury Sun is about to go some Kranti so I feel like there's this separation between us let nothing separate us Kapil G and of course that's the goal of this protocol is to figure out when two people have a permanent block between them and when they have they have positive flow so the personal handicap is one thing the other thing that that I'm gonna share here is timing and the rules some of the basic rules for timing and the thing to understand about timing a relationship is this you have your own chart you're sweet honey.

 Pooh cakes has his or her own chart but your relationship actually has its own chart based on the first time you meet it okay that's the birth chart of the relationship so you can actually you can kind of go crazy trying to figure this out but you could that that's a relationship then the first time you kiss or the first time you have sex that also takes your relationship to a new level and there's a chart for that then the engagement but really the final the most important chart for your relationship is the marriage chart the moment you get married because that's the last one like there's no other steps higher than that so the marriage chart traditionally in Vedic and in Western astrology is extremely important because it sets the tone for your relationship does that make sense yes of course and so there are some basic rules about timing your marriage one of the most obvious is don't do it close to an eclipse because your marriage is the Sun and the moon or the archetypal masculine and feminine and you want them to come together in a positive way not to be eclipsed by a shadow ideally there shouldn't be a planetary war fortunately those are very rare so I mean except today we're doing this there's a plan to do all right now but there's no marriage happening when the moon is dark meaning when it's one sign away from the Sun or in the same sign as the Sun so the Sun is in Gemini you don't want the moon in Taurus Gemini or cancer that's a dark moon okay especially when it's dark and waning getting darker and alright then when the moon is in an unsuitable Nicotra for marriage like some of the fears nakshatras but also Pusha which is not considered so there there's a number of them that are not considered suitable for marriage when Venus is weak in the chart debilitated combust and guess what the chart of Charles and Diana the wedding chart as all of that Wow they manage those to have decent compatibility if you look at their charts across yes there's some problems but I've seen happily married couples with worse charts they have decent compatibility but they're met here's their marriage chart right on the screen and I can make it South Indian - boom there we go so first of all what do we have here well the moon is one house away from the Sun you can see and it's a waning moon it's getting darker on top of it it's 24 hours before major solar eclipse so it's a day day and a half before an eclipse there's also planetary war in the league now - in Jupiter and Saturn Jupiter being the seventh Lord Venus the planet of love and relationships is in the twelfth house on either side with malefics on either side I mean is this interesting or what I mean any first beginning astrologer could have looked at this and said no this is a bad idea unfortunately they didn't consult one astrologers are pretty expensive these days I don't know they might not have wanted to oil there it might be like a hundred pounds I'd rather spend that on pound cake yeah anyway yeah so in England has wonderful astrologers both Western and Vedic so they certainly had to pull the truth from but this is one of the worst charts I've seen Venus is afflicted the seventh house is afflicted by malefic Saturn and the ruler being in a planetary war the moon is in a drama etc not ideal for marriage means there will be many tears right hosta the rising nakshatra is also not ideal for marriage it contains a number of oh yes what's that hosta the Widowmaker they call it the Widowmaker yeah Binda Maya Trix is the star at 20 degrees yeah [Music] a Virgo that is the Widowmaker and a hosta is is a virgin it's a it's a virginal energy it's it's unsophisticated in love yeah and there'll be awkwardness you know when he's trying to take off you know her dress and it's like okay what what how does this work when they went on through the honeymoon right after the marriage mm-hmm some book instead of Vita and she's like sitting by herself trying to read some book and she was like doing and he's busy finish this book I you see we really need to know that book was yeah this is extremely important first yeah yeah so that's it it's this very intellectual kind of virginal unsophisticated and the lagna Venus afflicted eclipsed happening the planetary war seventh house afflicted anyway you get the point timing so despite the fact that they actually had pretty good compatibility overall the the relationship they created was bound to suffer and so back to this idea of of timing let me put the right document here you don't want to marry during one of these also Saturdays or Tuesdays empty what day this was I don't think this was a Saturday or a Tuesday but at least they got that right so timing is extremely important now one way to figure out timing between two charts is to see if you guys are in a good period for marriage between you two so this is not the marriage chart this is look at your chart look at your spouse or your potential spouse and see are you guys in a good period so for example are your - ah Lourdes friendly or inimical and and by the way these points that I have here these are part of the compatibility protocol you know and at the end it spits out a number and you get a good idea of is this strong or weak so for example well let's start with a if you're both in the same - ah within one and a half years this is extremely positive it's like you are fated to be together this is one of the soulmate connections I call like what do you mean like you started your - are just one and a half year off each other yeah like I'm in Saturn Saturn you're in Saturn mercury and it's within a year and I see okay okay yeah I mean it's really close so we're both sharing the same things it's like reading the same book like we're both we both have the same interest so whatever book Charles was reading if they were in the same - ah Diana would also be reading and and then she'd be like hey so what chapter are you on and he'd say well you know here's what happens and she said come over here tiger tell me more about it you see there's that simpatico there's it's a very so they say a lot of the books and in my own personal experience says that if you have this you're good to go forget about the rest of the compatibility you're the in the sense that I've seen charts of happily married couples who don't have great compatibility between their two charts but they are within a year or year and a half of the same - ah yeah which means they'll be within a year and a half forever for the rest of their lives because when one moves into the next shot the other person will also move and they did this cup these couples fight they bicker but they love each other and they stay together so that's a big factor if it's within one and a half to three years still great anything within four to six years is considered highly desirable more than that and now it's getting a little too loose okay so that's one principle of someone - ah you share the same - ah and it's within a couple of years another principle is as I was trying to say principle F are they mutually friendly are you running Saturn and I'm running Venus right or am i running Venus in your run in Jupiter who are enemies who are these anus is the enemy you know Venus doesn't like Jupiter very much yeah wait but you're saying that the deep artificial or placement in partners chart in 159 4 oh yeah so deep okay so let's let's go one by one here yeah so if let's say I'm running Saturn and my Saturn falls in your ninth house so I will be a source of you know education travel spiritual inspiration for you if my the Shou Lord falls in your fifth you know I'll be a source of children play creativity and so on it's I'll bring out good things in your life because my energy like let's have whatever I'm running if I'm running mercury the Shah let's say is in my mercury falls in your first house it's going to activate your personality your sense of self-worth so just being around me will make you feel good all other factors being equal but if my mercury falls in your eighth house I'll be a source of I don't know 8th house top scandal or at best I'll be trying to talk Sanskrit to you all the time and you'll be like shut up yes maybe while speaking Sanskrit and then been all the more reason just shut up and you know so yeah but the best of the 8th house is sacred wisdom right so Sanskrit Ayurveda Joe - sure so you you're having sex and you're saying I wonder if this is a good time and you need checking your nostrils your thing let me check the ephemeris all that stuff anyway I don't know this might be a little too raunchy for you - yes yes both ways so let's so negative 3 no it's naked snake ative yeah there's six eight twelve you know they're the undesirable things yeah negative three is not a lot it's just one factor so it's okay it's not a this is definitely not there much bigger deal breakers like raju and vada which we cover so let's do the next one - the lord relationship are they in so the shower Lord Willett let's actually take a look at that I looked at this for the I'm doing a case study for the compatibility protocol and I looked at Richard Burton in Elizabeth Taylor last night okay and I don't know if you guys can see this old zoom it they met in the early 60s when Elizabeth Taylor started her mercury period you see that right yeah her mercury is in Aquarius and let's just remember that mercury in Aquarius and then Richard Burton right around the same time in 63 he started Rahu his Rahu is in cancer you see that yeah let's hear so what is the relationship between his Rahu and in her mercury her Mercury's right here right no sorry not not in not in Gemini her mercury is in Aquarius sorry for Mercury's right here so his Rahu in her mercury are 6-8 to each other her mercury is in hit the eighth house from his - our Lord is Rahu is in the sixth house from her it's a six eight relationship the worst you can have it means all other factors being equal no matter how good their compatibility is otherwise there will be bickering emnity during this period okay again this by itself is not a deal breaker but it's definitely something that they're gonna have to deal with meaning that in a sense they're star-crossed lovers the timing is off for these two charts now they also have a number of very compelling soulmate connections which we'll look at in a minute but ultimately they ended up breaking up twice they married twice do you see what I'm what I'm demonstrating here though yeah so so the 6/8 connection and by okay so where does this come from what are the types of connections one can have I guess we should just go go to that first the types of connections you can have our one one which is a conjunction so her mercury on his Rahul heard the shahrullah in his are in the same sign or the opposite sign that's also considered very good or their 5-9 to each other for their 3:11 to each other we discussed this in the compatibility protocol at in in very great detail the negative aspects are six eight which is the worst six eight is like okay each one of these has a name the seven seven which is the opposite is the opposites attract I see in you what I need you seen me what you need the one one the conjunction is birds of a feather oh we have a kindred we're kindred spirits the six eight is slightly off that's angle and when you see fighters they don't stand right in front of the other guide they stand a little bit to the side so they can punch and they can hit and not be here does that mean so that's the 6/8 relationship which is the I wanna kill you relationship I call that the irreconcilable differences relationship now it's fine if you have one or two planets or you know that have that if it's balanced by good combinations remember everything is relative and fits within there's a lot of factors to consider but the - our rulers being in inimical positions suggest there will be fighting okay make sense yeah is it make sense or is this like kind of clothing weird okay so their mutual relationship to each other and then their mutual friendly friendliness or emnity so you can see can get a little complex but it's worth doing to see if you know your timing is good to get together just based on your - our Lord's yeah so any questions about that I don't know do you also look at the compatibility in terms of like where there Venus's and the other person's chart where the moon is in the other person's chart absolutely yeah so that's what I call the poor connection so the core connection is between the lug no Sun Moon Venus and the lug no Lord this is a technique by the way that you guys can read about in light on relationships this is I didn't come up with this this is hard to fall and Roberts Kubota wrote a wonderful book very dense and and you know very rich you have to come back to it many many times to get all the t's out all the nuances but this is the basic technique they propound in that book so yes and I call that the core connection the foundation of a relationship if that's missing you can still make the relationship work but it's good to have at least one or two of these be positive okay so yes we do consider that in fact I'll tell you what appeal it's good that you ask this Karl Yuma did a he did the horoscopes of almost 1000 people like nine hundred and forty something people who were married okay so and happily married and he wanted to find out what is is there an astrological correlation statistically and he was blown away he found yes there's a correlation he did the study again found it again did it had other people do it so he wasn't biased it happened again and he published the 10 most powerful combinations that lead to long term successful marriage according to his study now mind you he didn't have access to the you know doshakata system you know to the noggin our Jew and my hand around all this he had Western astrology and within Western astrology what he found here I'll I'll increase this year boom the top combination was when the son of one partner especially the man was conjunct the moon of the woman meaning in the same sign it also works if the woman's Sun is conjunct the man's moon but it's you know archetypically the man is the Sun the solar Kurama and the moon is feminine Sita and when those two come together it's a powerful soulmate combination whether conjunct now also the number four was son opposite moon so any combo can jumped or opposite the Sun in the moon creates a powerful attraction and soulmate bond between a couple so since we have these guys up let's look at Richard Burton really quick and and Liz Taylor so and and I'll just I'll point this out here really quick if people want to you know rewind the video they can Liz her son is in Aquarius okay taking that into Richard Burton's chart that puts it right here okay opposite his moon okay you see that and the degrees are also important her son is a 14 degrees his moon is at 16 degrees very tight opposition the opposites attract this is a powerful attractive force but watch this his son is in Libra oh I about 125 degrees we put that in her chart there's Libra look at what happens exactly his son on her moon this is so rare you have no idea how rare this is to have both ways because you just need it one way even one way is good enough but they have it both ways so there is a powerful powerful bond in fact I was reading her Wikipedia thing she said after Richard Burton all the men in my life were good for was holding my coat and opening the door he was it he was the man and you can see it there's the soulmate combos and yet look at what else is happening this is I'm skipping forward just a little bit his Saturn is also at 24 degrees also his Saturn is on her moon crushing her moon and if you look at which is closer his Saturn by degrees is closer to her moon than his son is which means that the problems the personal problems the harsh discipline will eventually be more than the soulmate connection it'll over shadow it the Eric complicated two charts so the sun/moon connection was one of the soulmate connections but there are others now we're all looking we're going like oh do I have this do I have this oh man I don't have it honey we're getting a divorce no no wait don't get a divorce yet okay cuz you know you know you're looking at your chart I was looking at my chart too when i another is Venus conjunct the ascendant either or Venus some mine or my Venus on yours what this means is my Venus desire conjunct your lugnut I want your body I want you your personality you're just adorable to me and in it becomes major so again it doesn't have to be both ways just one person's Venus on the other slugma is a soulmate combo moon one person's moon conjunct the other person slugma in the same sign and then we talked about sun opposite Moon Moon conjunct moon moon opposite moonship it's you know this is very interesting here he doesn't list it but in Vedic Astrology one of the most desirable combinations is to have moon sama septum--ah moon - moon in a 7-7 relationship ie the sama stop Tama means you know 1 1 or a 7 7 relationship this is considered to erase most of the doshas in a chart so if you have your moons together or opposite especially no opposite actually opposite is the best it's considered one of the best factors for in fact some text and some pundits say if you have this forget about matching you your you're a good match make sense the folks my internet so pretty much like if you're here are you either yeah or opposite so this is a I think you're breaking up yeah but it's better if they're opposite because if they're conjunct in the Vedic system you're gonna miss out on a whole bunch of of kutas like the 3d yoga for example well it could still be in a previous nut chakra but it's most likely that it isn't you're gonna miss out on a number of beneficial factors in fact in you know in ancient India and in ancient societies everywhere rural societies having the moon to close could mean that you're just too close to the other person and that could mean like same like in sexual kind of relationship so if you think about it from a genetic point of view it's better to marry to be with someone very different from you genetically so that your kids can have the best of your genes and the partners genes yeah and that's like having your moons opposite if your moons are the same it's like marrying your cousin or your sister you have the same genes does that make sense yes you two share a lot you're you're related basically it's better to be opposite and so that 7/7 relationship is talked about over and over and over in the in a lot of the texts that I've read on relationships how it it cancels it can cancel Veda can cancel what I do some of these blemishes I don't think it cancels them but it's it's a good thing to have okay so these are Carl Jung's 10 powerful soulmate combinations in order have you also seen because I also see when Mars is Mars and Venus conjunct the other person's Mars Venus or Mars opposite Mars or their sexytime combos yes they become very like passionate and then especially a um so yeah I have Venus Mars yeah sorry you broke up a little bit in its intim and my fault it's on my end but yes just answer your question this is part of the compatibility protocol we give very specific pro-forma for how to assign points and Venus Mars is one of those indicators as is move on Mars by the way yes moon Mars conjunction and opposition is considered very powerful for marriage by the Western astrologer and in long term marriage we're not talking about just a Vegas marriage although moon Mars creates a lot of passion in ours I think look it by the way look at Elizabeth Taylor and uh and mr. Burton look at where his Mars is also his Mars is in Libra carrying that into her chart they have the moon Mars connection also and her Mars is in Aquarius you see this yes carrying that to his chart it falls opposite his moon so they've got that going as well did you ever notice that anytime you see 7th Lord in the fifth house of persons usually it does not get married it's tough for marriage or there's multiple marriages yes or there's Affairs why is that is it because it's the or 11th from the 7th which is the original package placement and yes for if it's an if we're yeah for a chart or a sheet but I think it's more of too much of a good thing it's the same principle of Kharak abhava nausea meaning having Venus in the seventh house yeah oh you've got Venus the planet of relationships in the seventh house of religion that's great you're gonna have wonder well yeah you might have a too many relationships yeah it's not good for a stable marriage so I think the that 5/7 connection creates a little bit of that where the person may have a little too many options in their mind yeah okay and one way to keep that to make that work is to have not an open relationship but a relationship where you where you can have fun and play and in you know the fifth house yes it's the eleventh to the partner but it's your fifth house five eleven are about entertainment fun and keeping it light so extending the engagement a little bit longer so you guys can really find out if you guys are men you know meant to tie the knot because it's the moment you tie the knot and tie it down yeah that fifth house is gonna feel a little bit constrained I don't know if that makes sense but yes then I'm speaking as a man and we men are more notoriously you know slippery when it comes to getting tied down but it didn't even notice the language I'm using but it can go both ways I've seen this certainly in women's charts as well yeah well in we covered this actually in the personal handicap so check this out in the personal handicap one of the things is first of all do you have relating skills you know but it and this is the part there is a special yoga for the seventh house called karma yoga if it's positive or disparity you if it's negative in the criteria for the good yoga kama he is when that house is occupied or aspected by benefics and it's Lord is in good shape and there's no malefic influence so kama yoga the seventh it says this person will never look at another spouse they will be happily married it's all the good things for the opposite which is discreetly which literally means sinner like a doer purity of do of bad stuff this is the person that has a dedicated horn hub account you know or or - I don't have difficulty okay so how do I know it's okay don't ask me discrete - yoga is when the seventh house has falls under certain conditions its afflicted by malefic sits Lord is in six eight or twelve or debilitated and vanilluxe influence now it's rare to have these but when you do you can predict pretty pretty strongly on them yeah the padushka to yoga has a lot to learn before they get married so doesn't mean they're always gonna be that way but they just come in with less skills if you will in this lifetime to make a one partnership work and they need a little practice yes so this isn't a death sentence if you have one of these ear is just there's certain Karma's and it looks gonna take you a little bit longer and you probably don't want to be in a relationship for the rest of your life Barbara Bush is at whom I mentioned earlier why belief has the Karma Yoga I believe I don't remember her chart on top of my head he is perfectly fine to have that one person George Bush by the way he didn't have great a really good personal handicap he was somewhere like minus 16 which is okay but it's not great yeah she was in the pluses how was Clinton so oh I am you know what I haven't looked at his chart he's he would be a good case study cuz obviously we know so much about him I don't think we have an accurate Hillary chart though doing I don't think I think that was an issue during the election because a lot of people a lot of you know big-time astrologers reply-all Hillary will definitely win definitely win and I'm like oh that's how do you know let's hear a chart night well we we think this is rich I'm like how can you know if anyway but I don't think there really is a chart for her it's down to the degree I think that's why I didn't do them but we can look at his actually you're right I'd love to look at his personal handicap yeah he's definitely in the double digits negative somewhere and I can .

I can pretty much tell you that he's got Venus debilitating the lug nut I mean from seventh floors in the cold house no benefit aspect on the seventh house um what else is there let's take a look yeah I mean so he has all the classical placement of that um okay yeah so the seventh house first of all the seventh house oh he's got it he's got douche karate yoga yeah boom you nailed it yeah so mr. cookie when the seventh house is aspected by malefic who is not the ruler of the house okay that qualifies when the lord of the seventh is in six eight or twelve boom there's Saturn in six eight or twelve yeah and there's no benefit aspect on the seventh no no benefit aspects no in fact Venus also the coracle for relationships is heavily afflicted in the twelfth book book case study man dooshka t okay exactly oh lordy so of course we know all about I mean if the guy was going out with his telling everyone like talking to magazines about his girlfriend Marla maples Wow I think his he was still married to you to his previous wife he was talking about how good she is in bed and all of this while he's still married and has kids with the other one I mean you know this is due Shruti straight up anyway but look again and not to be fair to him and anyone else who has his combo like I said this is something you can work on and and fix it just tells you a certain karma that you're sort of come into this world with relationships fail at them learn from them and then find yourself the right person you know why sure and and if you find someone like Barbara Bush I can't not do not harp on her but of course there are others joining Woodward has a really good she was married to Paul Newman for like 50 years yeah so if let's say trauma found someone like Barbara Bush there would have been a lot fewer marriages I think they could have even maybe made it work based on her her willpower alone .