Scorpio Man
Twenty-five thing to known about Scorpio
man one he's intense and passionate out
of all 12 zodiac signs Scorpio is the
most intense there are a number of
reasons for this and directly relate to
the signs ruling planets one Mars and to
Pluto Mars is considered hot because of
its close proximity to the Sun Pluto is
considered cold for its distance when
the polarities of both celestial bodies
are combined they vie about alpha energy
that is extremely intense you will
always know when you are in the presence
of a Scorpio man because deep inside
you'll feel him staring into your soul
if you've ever been attached to a
Scorpio guy you know this to be true -
he can sense your feelings and thoughts
when a Scorpio man tunes into you it's a
good bet he'll know exactly what you are
feeling no we don't mind read although
some do think the sign has supernatural
abilities what's really going on is this
the men have a way of anticipating what
you will say and intuitively sense your
emotions without you ever speaking a
word this ability in part has something
to do with Scorpio being a water sign in
simple speak water signs are deep and
here's something you may not know.
Scorpio is particularly empathic with
cancer and Pisces that's because all
three are represented by the element of
water fYI the Scorpion species is
considered an arachnid
that's the scientific name for eight
legged animals called arthropods
for example spiders are considered
arachnids ever hear of the term spidey
senses as in spider-man now you know a
little more about the whole intuition
thing three super logical to a fault
there's no easy way to say it except to
blurt it out scorpio men are extremely
logical gifted with strong listening
skills they have the ability to analyze
complicated issues and find solutions
this is a blessing and a curse on the
one hand they can compartmentalize their
emotions focus like a laser on a
particular issue on the other hand that
focus often turns into a fixation some
have compared this personality trait to
mr. Spock on Star Trek
in many ways the analogy fits much
depends on the situation
speaking of fixation now would be a good
time to explore the next trade for he's
going to be obsessive all Scorpios are
obsessive but in the case of guys this
characteristic is amplified empowered by
a high degree of anxiety I've met many
who have told me they struggle with
obsessive compulsive disorder speaking
only for myself I can tell you that I
personally live with OCD at any rate the
good part of being obsessive is that
goal attainment almost always happens
the bad part however is that in pursuit
of a goal we can often make life hell
for the people around us particularly a
mate what is it like to date a Scorpio
man what is it like loving a Scorpio man
five the men are very competitive
this trait too can be good or bad
depending on how you look at it
generally speaking Scorpios are highly
competitive athletically inclined they
excel at various sports the same holds
true in other life areas such as career
in business much of this has to do with
the previously mentioned trait of
obsessiveness the bad part is that
Scorpios sometimes have a win at any
cost
mentality in turn this can cause them to
make decisions that aren't always wise
at least for the long term in romantic
relationships
scorpion men can be extremely aggressive
I'm mentioning this because that win at
any cost approach can spell trouble
particularly if the guy becomes obsessed
with you this leads us to another
characteristic one you'll really want to
pay attention to six he's horribly
jealous I hate to admit this but it's
true Scorpios are highly jealous
creatures but here's the thing you won't
be able to tell because we're experts at
hiding our truth the problem stems from
being majorly territorial in turn this
leads us to mistrust others we can't
help it it's just part of who we are if
we sense you are interested in someone
else which isn't hard for us to do we
begin crafting a plan of action often
those plans involve manipulation 7
he's also manipulative this is another
terrible trait to admit but you want to
know the real deal about this sign right
the reality is that many of us can be
highly manipulative the reason simply to
get what we want
that said the manipulation doesn't
happen through nefarious means instead
it's usually part of a general charm
offensive that involves physical prowess
and often sex
additionally the manipulation stems as a
reaction to the above-mentioned
jealousy trait 8 he's going to have body
image issues while not true for all many
scorpion men's struggle with body image
issues this makes sense when one
considers that the male version of this
sign places a high premium on how they
look and because of the obsessive trait
we covered earlier the body image issues
often become amplified if you pick this
up in your man the best thing you can do
is gently reassure him he looks fine in
fact it's perfectly okay to tell him
that he's obsessing on the issue.
Scorpios are well aware of how they tend
to hyper focus in unhealthy ways and are
okay with reminders Don however lie to
him example if he's complaining he's
gained weight and it's obvious you are
far better off encouraging him to stick
with his fitness goals telling him
something that isn't true as a pacifier
is not a good idea
always remember lying to a Scorpio is a
deal-breaker 9 he needs to be in charge
right or wrong the Scorpio guy you like
needs to be in charge the men are born
leaders and are usually very assertive
and dominant Teddy Roosevelt is an
example of a strong Scorpio male this
characteristic lends itself to different
life areas think work home and the
bedroom that set the guys to like
partners who can make decisions if you
are passive it's probably not going to
work the one exception to this might be
someone who is Pisces a sign that
struggles with indecisiveness this is
not to say they aren't open to feedback
scorpions often solicit advice from
others and infuse alternative viewpoints
into the decision-making process the key
is to be a willing and partner
and while you may be the person who
wears the pants in the relationship it's
critical to make your scorpion guy think
he's the one in charge
Scorpio man and why they a mysterious
Scorpio men by nature are mysterious 10
he's going to be secretive and
mysterious the easiest way to spot a
Scorpio man is to look for the guy who
is sporting a pair of sunglasses even on
cloudy days or at night I've heard some
women describe the male's as bad boys
because they vie about highly sexual
energy that is magnetically seductive if
you are noticing this trait in the man
you are dating here's why in the
traditions of Horus Copic astrology
Scorpio falls under the 8th house this
metaphysical structure holds a number of
powers including sensuality sexuality
and mystery 11 he can be cool and
emotionally distant because the ice
planet Pluto partially rules this sign
Scorpio often comes off to others as
cool and distant this is not intentional
but instead part of his persona
it doesn't help things that the sign is
so obsessive in the case of men this can
cause them to get caught up in various
activities in turn this can leave a mate
feeling neglected the best way to handle
this issue is to gently let your man no
he's getting lost in whatever he's
fixated on because he's intuitive he'll
likely step back for a moment and
reassess but I'm going to level with you
if the man you are with is hyper focused
on something you aren't going to be able
to stop it all you can really do is
write it out and trust that it will pass
just remember that distance you feel
doesn't mean he doesn't care about you
12 the guys are sexually dominant
one of the main reasons some women
gravitate towards Scorpio men relates to
rumors sex
the question is other rumors true the
simple answer is yes if a scorpion guy
is attracted to you physically and the
feeling is mutual you can expect a
highly passionate experience the
intensity of lovemaking becomes
amplified if there is a strong emotional
connection there is one catch so listen
up
Scorpio males do not like being
dominated it's a major turnoff it is
okay if you initiate things in fact
that's encouraged but if you have an
agenda he's going to pick up on it and
shoot the whole thing down 13 super
protective to a fault
once you enter into a relationship with
this sign you need to know the men can
be super protective they won't allow
anyone to disrespect their mate not even
a little bit I've personally met
scorpion guys who have gotten into
fights with other men because they said
something offensive about their mate a
Scorpio man will do whatever it takes to
protect the people he loves and will
even put his own life at risk to ensure
their safety on some level this may seem
like an admirable trait just be careful
because this characteristic can also get
him into trouble
14 he has a memory of an elephant when
you enter into a relationship with a
scorpion dude you need to know they have
powerful memory banks they can recall
the smallest detail of a situation
particularly the spoken word I'm talking
about right down to the inflection of
your voice
bear in mind scorpion memory is most
powerful when there is a strong
emotional connection
a Scorpio man is usually a caretaker
Scorpio men prefer to be the caretakers
15 he's a caretaker many consider this
trait to be a good thing generally
speaking that's true when you pair up
with a scorpion man there's a good
chance he'll want to nurture and support
you but the care taking quality isn't
always desirable that's because the sign
tends to over care from a mate and it
can manifest into controlling behaviors
in addition and this applies to scorpion
men exclusively they have a real hard
time with a mate earning more money than
they do awful thing to admit but it's
true go back to point number eight and
it will make sense the truth is Scorpio
needs to be a caretaker because it is an
extension of their need to control this
can pose a real problem for other signs
who are also caretakers such as cancer
16 he'll have back problems most Scorpio
men struggle with back problems
particularly in the lower lumber region
the reason is simple because of their
obsessive nature they tend to hold
stress and anxiety in the lower back
sometimes the pain can be crippling if
you want to get close to your man offer
occasional back rubs and massages not
only will you touch upon one of his
androgynous zones you'll also help him
to release negative energy 17 he's going
to be brutally direct an important thing
to keep in mind when you are
romantically involved with this sign is
the men tend to be brutally direct he
will let you know exactly what's on his
mind
there will be no mincing of words and no
passive-aggressive game playing many
people find this to be a welcomed trait
that said if you happen to be the
sensitive type it may take some getting
used to when a Scorpio man is in love
with you he's
to tell you straight out how he feels
moreover you will be able to sense this
deep inside his touch voice and general
presence will intuitively speak to your
heart the key thing is to allow his
emotions to unfold organically it can't
be rushed or manipulated if he picks up
on you trying to snare him he's going to
walk 18 he'll be loyal to you if you are
looking for a man who will not cheat
bonding with a Scorpio Gaia is a good
choice after the initial period of
mating and the emotional connection is
locked he's yours but there are a few
caveats first he's going to demand
monogamy second he'll always be
suspicious of you it is just the nature
of the sign and it can't be changed
this is not to say the men don't like to
check out other women they do a lot see
the next point for more insight 19 he's
big on flirting even when he's committed
himself to you in the emotionally and
physically it doesn't mean your man
won't have a wandering eye he will he's
also going to flirt you may be wondering
why it's simple it's all about Scorpio
being born under the 8th house of the
zodiac in simple speak this metaphorical
structure contains the twin vibrations
of mystery and sexual energy
translation scorpions vie about magnetic
intrigue it is their nature to flirt
moreover they like when other people
check them out
scorpio men are off an introverted
scorpio manner usually introverted
twenty your man will be introverted this
is not a sign that wants to steal the
limelight or be the center of attention
like some leo men do
instead your Scorpio man will try to
blend himself into the background
quietly and discreetly there he will
simply observe everything that is
happening that's not to say the guys
can't be social they can be but if given
a preference they prefer a small
intimate groups over large crowds this
is a truth for all water signs reading a
good book watching a movie or simply
engaging in one-on-one dialogue with you
is more than enough to satisfy him 21 he
will strangely be attracted to water
wondering where to go on vacation with
your man trying to plan the perfect
getaway if so it would be smart to
arrange plans where water is present
like a moth to a flame .
Scorpios are
drawn to the sea this could be a lake
pond or the ocean it doesn't really
matter all you need to know is that
water has a calming effect on him
swimming camping and boating activities
are all excellent choices
water has a restorative effect on the
guys and for reasons that I do not fully
understand 22 handle criticism with care
I'm just going to blurt it out Scorpios
aren't the best at handling criticism
this doesn't mean they aren't open to
feedback they are but it's all about the
delivery when handled properly your man
will appreciate that you took the time
to point out a behavior that needs
adjustment the best approach is to
appeal to his logical side using wisdom
as your guide
avoid attacking him when possible
otherwise you will get stung badly some
signs are naturally gifted in this area
others not so much
for example Aquarius and Scorpio can
sometimes butt heads because of faulty
communications 23 the guys are good with
money if you want to date a man who is
good with money and make smart financial
decisions scorpio males are a smart
choice while it is true they are a
feeling sign and prone impulsivity this
trait doesn't extend to the world of
Finance the hard truth is this sign
likes to hoard cash not because they
achieve instead it's about money
representing security and freedom this
is not to say the guys won't buy you
lavish gifts or trinkets they absolutely
will but look for those behaviors during
the mating phase when he is trying to
win you over 24 he'll have a brainy job
mentally Scorpios like to be challenged
it's all about solving mysteries heeling
hurts and getting to the root of
problems many are employed in careers
such as health care psychology
criminology finance and engineering they
usually make great salaries although
monetary reward isn't what motivates
them instead the Scorpion psyche needs
to apply his analytical skills to feel
whole money is therefore a byproduct of
his efforts 25 expect him to be fiercely
independent perhaps more so than any
other sign Scorpio men are super
independent they absolutely detest the
notion of someone taking care of them
the fastest way to turn one off is to
get clingy
that's a big no-no particularly during
the first few months of courtship some
have suggested the sign is also stubborn
on some level this may be true but it's
really more about the guys not wanting
to be controlled by anyone .